Four Success Tips for Teens

May 9th, 2012 by Elisabeth Donati No comments »

To Parents of Teens:

So often, by the time our kids turn into adults, we realize we haven’t given them much guidance on how to be successful out there in the real world of business.

Here are 4 simple things any teen can do today to give themselves a leg up later.

To Teens:

It might feel a little early to think about the “real world” of being responsible for yourself and making your own money but it’s not!

The good news is that there are some really easy, and potentially enjoyable, steps you can take now to make your transition into professional adulthood easier and potentially more successful.

  1. Get an email with your name (real name) in it., i.e., something like “YourName@gmail.com. In the professional world, where you want people to be able to remember you and find you easily, this is an important step towards getting “found”.
  2. Go to GoDaddy.com and buy the URL with your first and last name in it. (www.Your Name.com) All you need is a debit card to purchase the domain for a couple of years. You can put an online resume or portfolio here now and in the future or even a full-blown business at some point.
  3. Create a simple professional LinkedIn profile. Almost all headhunters (people who get paid to find employees for companies) use Linked In these days. It’s good to get on there early and start developing some professional contacts.a
  4. Create a professional Facebook page. Yes, it’s fun to post photos of events and parties and stuff but just know that every potential employer, every potential landlord, even potential roommates can check you out to find out who the REAL you is.

Just some tips from Aunt E and Aunt Jan (aka Elisabeth Donati and Jan Ruskin, authors of Rocks to Riches)

Ultimate Allowance Questions from Dad

May 3rd, 2011 by Elisabeth Donati No comments »

Because I constantly check in with the folks who purchase The Ultimate Allowance, I frequently get questions in my email box about little things (which are always big things:-). Usually they are simple but here are a few I thought I’d share from a dad with three sons. He’s about to start the 8-year old on The Ultimate Allowance and her are his questions…

To start the whole conversation, I invited him to talk to his little guys about companies and why they work or don’t work. I said, “Ask them what other companies work and then have them tell you about the ‘system’ :-) . This is a good eye opener:-).”

Here are his specific questions and my answers following them:

1) Who pays outings, e.g., going to the zoo, waterpark, camping trips?

Well, this is PLAY MONEY and is spent from the PLAY JAR and you can either make them responsible for the whole thing (I think you said the oldest was 8?) or I think a better idea is to have him save enough in his play jar for anything he wants to spend. You can make a system for your family where they pay 1/4 or 1/2. Whatever you think would be able to work for all three.

2) What if they want to move money from one jar (category of saving) to other…say sacrifice play money for savings or vice versa?

NO…it’s a system. Go back to the system conversation. Talk to them about the need for play and ask them this question…what would happen with your best friend if you never played with him? He’d go away! Exactly…so does money. Talk about adults who feel guilty spending their money or are so afraid (scarcity belief) to spend their money that they are stressed and never have any fun enjoying the fruits of their labor.

3) When starting with second of three sons, how do you handle hand me downs? The oldest will have bought the clothes so younger won’t need money for that and oldest wont get anything for it.

First, remember that you supplied most of the money for those clothes in the first place so it’s not really like the oldest one bought his own clothes. Second, things just are the way they are. Kids will always want their own clothes by the way…just saying… :-) . I wouldn’t worry about that or bring it up.

4. If you realize they need money for other things at the start, do you give more to add to budget?  Once it really gets going you likely can’t because it might defeat the purpose?

I think it’s up to the parent to really think the money through. Yes, you involve the child the whole way, but you’re the one who really knows what you spend on them:-)

Hope that helps. Keep it up! I’m very proud of you!!!

Great article on teaching kids about interest

April 27th, 2011 by Elisabeth Donati No comments »

Here’s a great article entitled, “5 lessons to teach kids how interest works” written by Tamara E. Holmes:

http://www.creditcards.com/credit-card-news/five-credit-lessons-teach-kids-how-iinterest-works-1267.php

Happy Bunny Day

April 24th, 2011 by Elisabeth Donati No comments »

Just wanted to drop in a wish you a Happy Easter!

Elisabeth

Changing the Paradigm of Financial Literacy

April 23rd, 2011 by Elisabeth Donati 3 comments »

For decades, if not longer, parents have believed that the only way for their children to do well in life was to get a college degree and then get a nice steady job so they could save up and retire when it was time. This belief continues, even though the world supporting the belief has changed dramatically.

For the kid who doesn’t want to go to college but, instead, wants to be his own boss, the path isn’t as clearly drawn. It’s often these young adults grow into true entrepreneurs because they don’t want to have a boss…they want to BE the boss.

Even though many parents push their kids toward college, this may not be the best plan of action any more. College has become simply A way and not THE way for young adults to move out into the world of making money on their own. And if our children were taught that college wasn’t the only way, fewer of them would leave high school feeling like total failures right off the bat.

Exploring the ever-present ‘gotta get a degree’ mentality further, you read that college dropouts, as well as graduates, often leave school with tremendous amounts of student loan and credit card debt. To make matters worse, the graduates go out into the world with unreasonable salary expectations. This often leads to trouble quickly after the excitement of graduation wears off.

The next step is often to move back in with mom and dad, find a job…any job…just to get by, let alone be able to pay down the debt or move forward in life financially. Many young adults struggle finding work at all, leaving mom and dad questioning how to help their grown children get on their feet so they’ll finally be able to make it on their own.

What if, instead, our children got a different type of financial education before they moved away from home? One that spoke to where we are today in terms of making money, careers and this new idea of financial freedom?

The challenge is that the current financial education model doesn’t fit the current paradigm of today’s young adults. The definition of financial literacy and the implementation of financial education need to change in order to prepare our kids for the very interesting economic future ahead.

Financial literacy used to mean understanding the importance of saving, balancing a checkbook and creating a budget to live on one’s means and invest for the future by accumulating money that would eventually grow to support us when we got old.

Now, financial literacy must include knowing how to invest in assets that produce passive income now and in the future. It must include knowing that financial freedom means having more money coming in than going out, knowing how to be an entrepreneur, understanding the art of leverage and a whole lot more.  It must, also, include knowing how to make money on the Internet!

It used to be expected that the kids with the A’s went to college and the kids who got C’s went out to make it on their own the hard way. Turns out the kids who got C’s created many of the businesses that the kids who got A’s ended up working for!

What if we taught our youth how to be self-sufficient, not just financially, but in all areas of life? We could call it Life Literacy. And what if we taught it in school to ensure that when children become adults they have the skills necessary to live well on their own?

Financial Education Needs A Facelift

The shift in financial education begins with the acknowledgment that more students don’t graduate from college than do graduate from college.

Financial literacy needs to expand past learning to save and invest for the long term to save and invest to create passive income for now and the future. Financial literacy needs to evolve into wealth literacy because more wealthy people have done more good for the world and the people living on it than any government has ever done. And the world right now, needs a lot more good.

If we prepare our youth to be leaders, instead of followers, employees and soldiers, to create true wealth in their lives early on, we will have fewer problems with poor economies, less unemployment and other social problems that arise from issues related to poverty. Right now, our children are being led down of path of roses where the roses are all but gone. The sad thing is that they are trusting us to lead them in the right direction, but we’re not. We’re leading them down a path that no longer works.

It is our responsibility as a nation, to prepare our children to be responsible, self-reliant adults. In our current educational system of testing the memorization of worthless facts and figures, teachers can’t teach what’s important and students are bored, drugged or worse, just trying to play the game of education in order to make it through the day.

Let’s all start taking a more active role in preparing our youth to be financially responsible adults. We accomplish this by setting the best example we can, talking to them about everything truly relevant to life and giving them plenty of practice making and using money while they’re young, before the pain of their mistakes bring them home with their tails between their legs.

Any change worth making takes time. And there’s no better time to change than now.

Elisabeth Donat’s Bio

Elisabeth Donati is the owner of Creative Wealth Intl., LLL, creator of Camp Millionaire and The Money Game and the recipient of the 2010 Financial Educator of the Year Award from the National Financial Educators Council. She is known as The Financial Literacy Lady. She is author of The Ultimate Allowance and writes a weekly blog called Financial Wisdom with a TWI$T. Elisabeth is an expert in teaching the basic financial principles people need in a way that is engaging, empowering and fun. For information, visitwww.creativewealthintl.org or call 805-957-1024.

 

Must Watch Movie for All Kids and Teens

April 11th, 2011 by Elisabeth Donati 1 comment »

Every once in a while I see a movie that I feel every American needs to see and I just have to share it.

The movie is Mr. Smith Goes to Washington with James Stewart.

This film was filmed in 1939 and is a little over two hours long but brilliantly done.

Why is it so important for kids and teens to watch it? Because it shows how one man actually CAN have an affect on a nation, both negatively and positively.

One the one side is our protagonist, Mr. Jeff Smith, a boy’s group leader, well-loved, honest as the day is long, a little ‘wet behind the ears’ as Saunders, his senatorial assistant describes, and naive enough to win the battle at showdown.

On the other side of the movie is the antagonist, The Tailor Machine, made up of the governor and everyone he’s bought and now controls: senators, newspapers, radio stations and more.

The movie is about truth, justice and the American Way.

The movie is about taking a stand and standing ’til you drop because you can’t quit, no matter what.

The movie is about having the right support at the right time in the right places.

The movie is about knowing what’s right and doing what’s right…something that has become a distant memory for a lot of Americans.

And the movie is about American history; how it came to be, what it stands for, and how, even back then, we tend to forget where we came from.

So, next time you don’t know what to do with your kids, fire up your Netflix account and watch, Mr. Smith Goes To Washington. Be prepared to either stop the movie for a little discussion with your kids about what’s going on or make sure you leave enough time at the end of the movie to talk about how they feel about what happened in the movie and what’s happening in America now.

Enjoy…

 

Discover The Power of Financial Education!

February 11th, 2011 by Elisabeth Donati No comments »

Author: Ben Semommung

Financial education is crucial to the wellbeing of families nowadays. It is therefore time for all of us to get serious about financial education. In law, they say “ignorance of the law is no excuse”. I think the same thing should apply to ignorance of financial matters or money issues.

You need financial education no matter who you are, where you are, and what you do in life. Henceforth it is a necessity to seek financial education, as a matter of urgency, if you don’t have it. We need to agree that ignorance is not a good thing because without financial education, you don’t have a hope of building a lasting and functional relationship with your money. Moreover, without financial education, you cannot process useful information into financial knowledge.

It is apparent that without financial knowledge many people struggle financially and encounter many social problems in their households. Without financial education, you cannot tell the difference between good debt and bad debt. As a result to delve into more and more debt without even knowing that you are digging deeper into bad debt. People who don’t have financial education cannot tell the difference between an asset and a liability. As such, they accumulate liabilities and end up failing to get out of debt or even defend themselves when creditors want their money.

Lack of financial education leads to lack of budgeting and poor financial spending. As result, some people say that budgeting doesn’t work. It is because of lack of personal financial education that most people work their whole lives only to remain poorer and poorer. When someone doesn’t have proper financial education, he or she leads a tough life of stress and depression.

Some businesses fail because of lack of financial education. Those who run businesses without proper financial education cannot tell the distinction between revenue and profit. Some even think that an overdraft facility will be an answer to their cash flow problems, only to find that it only exacerbates their indebtedness. They bond themselves to financial institutions and loan sharks that prey for people who don’t have financial knowledge.

Personal financial education is an important personal endeavor worth undertaking for the good of all. Financial advisors may tell you so many stories to get you buy their products that there is off-shore this or off-shore that. If yu don’t have financial knowledge you won’t understand what they are talking about because you don’t have financial education. The greatest enemy of mankind nowadays is the lack of financial education.

As Robert Kiyosaki, one of the financial gurus of all time puts it, “… it is not the love of money that is evil-it is the lack of money that causes evil… it is being deeply in debt that is evil …it is fighting with the people you love over money that is evil. Money by itself is not evil. Money is just money.”

Unfortunately most of the people hold on to these negative beliefs about money simply because they lack of financial education. In most of the households, talking about money has become a taboo subject. Money issues are a secret and yet they are root causes of many family problems. It is important that there is kids financial education in families and in schools. There is a need to break the silence with our children in schools and start exposing them to financial education.

There is need for in-service training who are employed and earning money because it is never too late to learn. We encourage you to take it upon yourselves to buy a financial education book or get a financial audio program to learn more about money management. You need to see to it that you attend a seminar on financial education. Many parents tend to pamper their children by giving them truck loads of money to silence them from nagging. This is no good!

I hope this helps.

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About the Author

Ben Semommung is a professional social worker, a writer and motivational speaker. His life purpose is to inspire and empower people from all walks of life to develop their full potential.

He has been involved in network marketing since 2004 and is one of the promising internet marketing geniuses online today who actually ‘walks the talk’. Ben is the owner and CEO of Dauphin Holdings (Pty) Ltd. His hobbies include reading, writing and surfing the net. He would like to meet new friends online and start networking.

Empower Your Kids To Be Entrepreneurs

December 25th, 2010 by Elisabeth Donati No comments »

Here’s a great video that is worth the couple of minutes it takes to watch. Many parents are still convinced that their kids have to get good grades in school in order to get good jobs as adults. But there is a better way.

Teaching kids how to be business owners and entrepreneurs puts them in charge of their own lives and their own futures.

Enjoy the video…

And remember, you have to teach them what to do with the money they make from their businesses.

Business education without a financial education is a recipe for disaster. Teaching them the rules to The Money Game is critical. Either makes sure their teacher is teaching them about money at school or teach them about money at home.

Either way, everyone wins!

Spending YOUR Money, Not Theirs

September 6th, 2010 by Elisabeth Donati No comments »

Many of you may have already noticed that when you offer to buy something for your child, he or she is usually eager to let you do it. Often this eagerness has little to do with how much the child actually wants the thing you’re offering to buy. He or she is just excited because it’s always fun to get new things, especially when someone else is paying.

However, when it comes to spending THEIR money, it’s a completely different story! If I may, let me tell you how I figured this one out on my own.

Many years ago, when my son Andrew was a teenager, he became so hard to buy gifts for that I got in the habit of just giving him money to buy his own gifts. We’d then schedule a shopping trip so he could buy something he wanted. He usually wanted clothes so we’d end up in a department store or a mall, walking from here to there, comparing prices, talking about whether a particular pair of jeans was worth $40, whether he wanted or needed new underwear?..?You get the picture.

funnykidOne afternoon, a couple of days after Christmas, he and I were having an annual exhausting experience and after a few hours I couldn’t take it anymore. He simply couldn’t decide what, if anything, he really wanted. I got frustrated, reached into my wallet, pulled out a nice crisp $100 bill and handed it to him. I said, “Here. Buy whatever you want.”

He took the bill, looked at it, looked at me, put the bill in his pocket and replied nonchalantly, “Let’s go home. I really don’t want anything.”

I was speechless! What had just happened? More importantly, what had I just learned? I realized then and there that it’s easier to spend someone else’s money than it is to spend our own. From that point on, things became much easier financially between my son and I.

Today he is financially self-sufficient, uses credit cards wisely (he has one that awards points and he pays it off every single month), and regularly puts money into his ROTH IRA, which his Dad and I helped seed, of course. I’m proud to say, I practiced what I preach with him, and more importantly, I can say that it works.

NOTE: I didn’t use the type of allowance in my book with my son since it didn’t exist then and I had no idea what I didn’t know back then. He did get an allowance, however, and quite a lot of coaching from us, and I know that helped get him to where he is today.

Teaching Our Children the Power of Gratitude

August 12th, 2010 by Elisabeth Donati No comments »

We often accuse our children (and partners) of taking things, or us, for granted. A positive way to look at this is to recognize that the children and partners feel comfortable and secure in us being there. The negative to this can sometimes lead to wishing they were a bit more grateful for us, and for everything else, in their lives. The question is, How DO you teach, or inspire, the power of gratitude in your children. Well, here’s some ideas:

1. Set the Right Example.

Hopefully, we all have learned that the “Do what I say, not what I do.” method of parenting doesn’t work very well for teaching most things to our children. That being said, it’s critical, just as with teaching them about money, that you set the best example possible for your children. Remember that they learn three ways; by what they see you do, what they hear you say and by the experiences you expose them to. Let them watch YOU be grateful, hear YOU speak words of gratitude on a regular basis and put them in situations where they can experience being grateful for things.

2. Great a Gratitude Journal.

Buy yourself and each one of your children a special journal, or make them with paper and notebooks they can decorate themselves, and make it your Gratitude Journal. Each day create a family morning ritual of writing down at least one thing each of you is grateful for that day. You’ll be surprised at what you come up with after awhile. One day you may find that you’re eating something salty and feel grateful for your taste buds!

3. Focus on what you HAVE instead of on what you DON’T have.

In this day and age of want, want, want, toy, toy, toy, it’s often hard for kids to realize just how well they have it. Heck, the way many adults talk, they don’t even realize it themselves.

Even if you’re in a family that doesn’t make a lot of money, you can find so many ways you have it so much better than the majority of human beings on earth. And if you don’t think so, try doing a simple search on Google. Look up “human suffering” and see what comes up. Sometimes seeing how badly others have it makes kids, and adults, realize how well off they are.

4. Do the Gratitude Dance (cute little YouTube video I found for you)

Believe it not, sometimes just taking a few minutes to move your body to music or a little stretching will move you from a place of negativity to a positive place of gratitude and happiness. Try it, it certainly can’t hurt! I’m dancing to music right now as I’m writing this for you and it feels so good!

So, what are YOU grateful for at this minute? Just something to think about.